Love in February… and Always

“I love you.”

I say it every day. Numerous times.

I say it to my hubby. To my kids. To my dog, Harry.

Actually, I usually say “I wuv you” to Harry. Don’t ask me why.

I say it to my friends in emails, texts, and cards… Love ya! xoxo

And I say it in blog comments and on Facebook and Twitter: I loved this post… I loved this book… I love cupcakes… Love this excerpt… Love your cover


It’s no surprise I love my family and friends. My writer pals. My readers. Oh, how I love my readers!

I also love writing and reading. I love editing (this has been an acquired taste, but right now I truly am loving it). I love my editors!

And I love the beach and the ocean and the sea air. I love staying up late and I love sleeping in. And running. I love to run. And then I love to eat. I love mochas and lattes and the sound of my hubby’s voice. I love wrapping up in a blanket and watching TV. I love quiet. I love music.

But sometimes – like many of us – I throw those words around too lightly. And I don’t think that’s a bad thing—because I do take the word love to heart. I never say it if I don’t have a fondness, warmth, or affection for the person/thing I’m speaking about. My mom taught me that if I didn’t have something nice to say, to not say anything at all. And I pride myself on living that way. Do I love that book cover as much as I love my dog? No.

Still, love is the one thing there can never be too much of.

And I hope all the people I share Love with know that I mean it. That there is thought and sentiment and purpose behind my “I love you.”

Because I do.

I really do.

So today I want to spread a little love. Leave me a comment about something you love and you’ll be entered to win a $5 Amazon or Barnes & Noble gift card. I’ll post the winner’s name on Thursday.

thHappy February and Happy Valentine’s Day!!


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36 Responses to Love in February… and Always

  1. Edie Ramer says:

    Robin, I love your post! 🙂 Seriously, it’s wonderful to go through the day feeling that warmth and appreciation instead of not feeling it. It’s how I prefer to live. So Happy February and an early Happy Valentine’s Day to you!

    • Hi Edie! Oh, I’m so happy you enjoyed my post! Thank you. I was racking my brain trying to think of what to blog about this month and then I was like, February is the month of love, so what can I say about love? I’m quite sure there are lots of writers out there with awesome thoughts on the topic, but this is just my little contribution. <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  2. elena k says:

    what a LOVEly post! it is better to tell what you are feeling than not! I love many things too! My family and my boyfriend are the most important!I love cuddling, movies,music and sweets. I love when my sister gets me to dance, laugh and be crazy with her and not to forget her cute cat.I love when I cook with my mom and when I play videogames with my brother.I love when my dad hugs me although we are together all the time. I love all the things my boyfriend does for me,even the simplest things like a kiss. I love reading books like yours that make me feel,cry and laugh!And of course I love you Robin for your friendship! My list is endless but I loved your post! 😀

    • Aw, Elena! I LOVE this comment! Thank you so much for sharing what you love. You are very lucky to be surrounded by the people that mean the most to you. And I love our friendship, too. It’s a wonderful gift I treasure every day. <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  3. Tanya Hanson says:

    Great post, Robin. 😉 I love my family most of all which now includes two adorable grandsons who are the halves of my heart! Animals, especially those who need love and care…good music. Rainshowers. Good friends! Happy Valentine’s Day.

    • Hi Tanya! Thanks so much for being here today! Oh my gosh, the halves of your heart – that is such a wonderful thing to say and I’m sure you’ve captured your grandsons’ hearts in return! Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day, my friend! <3 <3 I'm thinking those boys are going to be smothered with kisses.
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  4. OMG… my son, my sister and her family and my dogs! Great post and thanks for the giveaway!

  5. robena grant says:

    I love a lot of things but most of all I love my kids. Well, they’re adults now, but I love them more with every passing year. And now if they’d just be kind enough to have some kids I could love them too. : )

    • Hi Robena! Our children really are at the root of our love, aren’t they? My oldest just turned 21, which is beyond crazy (especially since I’m still 29 ;-)) and yep, my love and admiration for him keeps growing. Thank you for chiming in! <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  6. Dale Mayer says:

    Hi Robin,

    After a crappy day yesterday, your post reminded me of what really matters! Thanks! 🙂
    Dale Mayer`s last blog was …Knock, Knock… book 5 of the Psychic Visions series is on SALE now!

  7. Charlene sands says:

    Hi Robin! Ditto on all of your comments about Love. Love makes the world go around❤️💛❤️ It’s wonderful to have love in your heart!

    • Charlene! How’d you do that fun heart thing? I love them! I love hearts. A lot. Give me a heart and I’m a happy camper. And yes! Love is what makes the world go round. Truly. <3 <3 Thanks for spreading your love here today. 😀
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  8. Amy R. says:

    Hey, Robin – I am not surprised at this post. It is so your personality (or what I have gathered from online interactions with you). And it fits your books. They are full of love, too! 🙂
    Amy R.`s last blog was …Excerpt & Giveaway: REKINDLED by Kaylea Cross

    • Hi Amy! Thank you! That’s so nice of you to say. Especially since being online is hard for me. I’m naturally shy and quiet (well, until I get to know you, then watch out) and the whole social media thing has taken some getting used to. But I just try and be me and not sweat it. Ha! I sweat all the time – especially during FB parties. Thanks for commenting today! <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  9. Shari says:

    Thanks Robin for such a wonderful post and give away. I love my husband for how well he provides for me and our children. I love my two dogs for the joy and happiness that bring to our lives.

    • Hi Shari! You’re so welcome – I’m happy you enjoyed my post. And it sounds like you’re surrounded by love every day, which is pretty wonderful. Have fun with your hubby, kids and dogs this Valentine’s Day! Thank you for being here with me today! <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  10. Misty Evans says:

    Happy love month, Robin. 😉

    I love books and music. Best friends and new acquaintances. Readers, and writers, and dogs, and funny movies. I love the color black, and white, and lots and lots of pink. Tiaras, Hello Kitty, and bling, bling, bling.

    I’m blessed to love and be loved by my hubby, family, and many treasured friends. I love walks on the beach, warm summer nights, and crazy laughter with an old friend over chocolate cake and chai tea lattes.

    I love purple pens, a fresh notebook, an unexpected package. Red tulips, the sound of my kids laughing, The Breakfast Club.

    I love the MM gals, and all the great authors who take me away to another world. I love your books and your sweet emails! You never fail to bring a smile to my face. XOXO

    • Dang you, Misty! I’m tearing up here, now. All these comments are so great! We should keep them and put them all together in an MM Love post one day or something. Thanks for sharing your Loves with me, Misty, and thanks for being a great friend! Making the people I care about smile is one of my greatest joys. <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  11. Donna D says:

    Hubby and I say “I love you” many times a day — and do truly mean it. We’ve been thru some tough times in our nearly 47 years, and there may be more ahead, but the commitment to love sees us through.
    Of course, I love my children, and grandchildren.
    And I love to read.
    One might think I love this computer, I’m on it so much, but no, I really don’t even ‘like’ this computer much! I DO like catching up with [stalking 🙂 ] my friends and authors on fb!

    • Hi Donna! Thank you so much for being here today and sharing what you love, too. I love what you said about you and your hubby. Marriage most definitely isn’t always easy, but as you so beautifully put, “the commitment to love see us through.” I feel the same way. I can’t remember where I recently saw something that really stuck with me (I think it might have been something Edie posted on FB?), but the saying was something like… marriage is something between two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other. That struck a cord with me. My hubby and I are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary this year and we say “I love you” many times a day, too. And mean it. Even on bad days, we mean it.

      And LOL at your computer! Uh, sometimes I think my hubby believes I’m married to my computer and not him.

      Best wishes to you and your family and Happy Valentine’s Day! <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  12. marilynbrant says:

    I do love you, my sweet friend! I agree that our family, pets, friends, kind readers and more all deserve our love, and it’s worth saying that frequently. 🙂 I love all sorts of other delightful and delicious things in life from stories to desserts, from songs to certain moments… Thanks for your day-brightening post, and may February be a month filled with all sorts of things you love!
    marilynbrant`s last blog was …What Does the Groundhog Say?

  13. Linda says:

    There´s so much to love, family, friends, books =D great weather, the sun.. Reading, and my health. To make sure you tell the ones you love, that you love them, that´s important. You never know what´ll happen.
    Happy Tuesday & Thanks for the giveaway!

    • Hi Linda! Oh, I forgot about the sun. I really love the sun. 🙂 And you are so right about not taking any day for granted. Because we really don’t know what tomorrow might bring. Thanks so much for being a part of my Tuesday! <3 <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

  14. Kimh says:

    Love ,my family friends, books and my garden
    Thsnk 😎

  15. Anita H says:

    What a lovely thing to write about! I love books and authors and I love my piano but above all else, I love my family! 🙂

  16. I love my family and friends, too! Lovely post, Robin 🙂

  17. Ada says:

    So many thinks that I love – my family, my friends, my books, my electronic gadgets and sports. I sure do LOVE my hockey!! And I love visiting blogs where my favorite authors hang out!!

    • Hi Ada! Aw, I’m going to pretend I’m one of those favorite authors since you’re here. LOL 😀 And hey, a good friend of mine has a hockey romance coming out on April 14th – On The Surface by Kate Willoughby. I adore Kate’s writing and can’t wait to read this myself. Who’s your favorite hockey team?

      Thanks for stopping by! <3
      Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

      • Ada says:

        Nothing pretend about it, Robin! And thanks for the heads up! I always love finding new sports romance authors. My favorite team is my hometown team, the Winnipeg Jets.

  18. Good morning! Happy Thursday! The random winner of my $5 gift card giveaway is Ada. Congratulations, Ada! I’ll be in touch to get your gc preference.

    Thanks again to everyone who stopped by! <3
    Robin Bielman`s last blog was …The Look of Love

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